Seeking God in Our Family Traditions
“These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” Deuteronomy 6:6-7
“Each day of our lives we make deposits in the memory banks of our children.” Charles Swindoll
- Time for your weekly prayer call! It is such a blessing to have a friend to pray with you and for you!
- Quiet your heart before the Lord. Ask Him to speak into your children’s lives and your family’s traditions.
- Read Deuteronomy 6:4-9. Ponder the meaning of impressing God’s Word and His commandments on your children’s heart. Write verses 6-7 in your journal.
Seeking God in Our Family Traditions
Easter is a joyful day complete with new clothes, pretty shoes, decorations, and a delicious dinner. These all enhance the wonderful truth we celebrate in our Easter worship services: Jesus Christ is Risen Today! This is the central message we want to convey to our children, and through the years my family has found several engaging, memorable ways of doing so.
There are many traditions that expose our children to God’s Word in fun ways! At our dinner table, we always have Scriptures about our Lord written on the back of the name cards. This is an activity with which your children can help! Older children can find the verses themselves, and younger ones can write the verses you have chosen on the cards. We then have each person at the table read their verse before we say grace.
One of our favorite family traditions brought special meaning to the customary Easter basket we always made for our children. In the basket, we not only put candy, but also spiritual items like a Christian book, a bookmark with Scripture, a magnet, or other small gifts. We hid the basket somewhere in our house or close by in the yard. Then we made ten clues that would lead each child to their basket and placed those clues in ten plastic eggs.
We handed the first egg to the child who had to figure out the clue that would lead him to the next egg with another clue until the last egg led him to the basket. The eggs were hidden around the house and yard. The clues in the eggs were riddles or rhymes and often contained Scripture references that the kids looked up in their Bible to figure out the clue.
If we hid an egg in the washing machine, we might use John 9:7, “‘Go,’ He told him, ‘and wash in the pool of Siloam.’ So the man went and washed and came home seeing. Psalm 63:6, “On my bed, I remember you; I think of you through the watches of the night.” You can guess where that egg was found!
We made different clues for each child, depending on their ages. When our children were very little, we even drew pictures. As our children grew older, the clues became more complex. With three children spanning six years and thirty clues to be made, you can imagine we worked hard! Don’t wait until the night before the hunt to begin! Our children enjoyed this tradition so much that we did these hunts into their young adult years!
Hiding God’s Word in our children’s hearts can take many forms. Sometimes it’s serious study and other times it’s fun games. Be creative like our Creator, and bring the joyful news of the resurrection to your children in many ways. There are a great many traditions to make the study of Scripture pleasant and memorable!
Questions to Ponder
- How can you encourage your children to hide God’s Word in their hearts this Easter?
- Many fun Easter traditions are completely secular. How can you include the Lord in your family’s favorite Easter traditions?
Pray that the Lord will show you how to make learning His Word fun and natural for your children.
As parents, we can take every opportunity to teach our children God’s Word! Deuteronomy encourages us to teach them in everyday circumstances, and we can look for those moments to show that Scripture is practical.
For example, if your child has a fight with another child, you might encourage them with the Proverb: “A kind answer turns away wrath,” (Proverbs 5:1); or with Jesus’ words: “Do unto others as you would have others do unto you,” (Luke 6:31).
Thoughtfully ponder how you can bring Scripture into your children’s lives in practical ways!
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Mary loves cooking, travel, music and playing games with friends and family. She likes to share with others anything she has learned from the Lord and His Word.
A favorite verse is II Timothy 2:2 “The things you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses, entrust these to faithful men who will be able to teach others also.”