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See, darkness covers the earth and thick darkness is over the people, but the LORD rises upon you and his glory appears over you. Isaiah 60:2

A Letter to My Teens About Dating

 

Dear Children,

In a world where family, marriage, and genders are on trial, you need to know that our future generations are at stake.

If Hollywood is setting the standard, you can be assured that 50 Shades Of Gray and The Bachelorette are ruling your dad and me outdated and your grandparents old-fashioned and boring. Who is your role model? Is it the new release down the street? Or is it the generation of honor and respect, that kept your grandparents in love for 40 years?

Yes, Ol’ fashioned is unpopular, but you know what? Sometimes it’s ok to rebel against popular.

Here’s to a good start:

Sons:

  1. If you fall in love with a girl’s face, your love will fade with her beauty.
  2. If you fall in love with her soul, your love will grow deeper with age.
  3. She needs to know you have eyes for her alone and that she is more valuable to you than any other!
  4. The right one will bring out your best. She will nurture your talents, encourage your exploits and talk good common sense when you need it most!

Daughters:

  1. You should know that a man’s heart is more tender and loyal than you might think.
  2. Treat him like a king and he will give you the kingdom! He wants to spoil you; carry your bags, open doors, and pick up the tab. Let him. This is a good sign that he will help you with dirty dishes and a messy house if you marry him. He will want to take risks and be brave. Support him, because you trust him!
  3. Don’t play with his heart by cuddling, kissing and crying to get your way. This breaks trust and creates disrespect.
  4. The right man for you will bring out your best! He will lead you spiritually, allow you to pursue your dreams, and hear your heart. Hang on to him.

Children:

  1. Passion is good and of God, don’t bury it. Instead, cultivate it and direct it in righteousness.
  2. Physical attraction to the opposite sex is absolutely normal, natural and good! Don’t feel guilt or condemnation for a healthy appreciation of beauty or strength. God is an amazing artist and knows how to give good gifts! However, if you feed your natural tendencies with porn or uncontrolled thoughts of lust, this is where you derail. The wreckage will cost you more than you want to pay. It’s NOT worth it!
  3. You should not expect sex from your dating partner nor should you even think to ask for it!
  4. You have what it takes to turn the tide! You can bring back chivalry and honor and enjoy a long, satisfying and adventurous life!

Love, Your forever Mom

Go Deeper: So many times we parent out of fears or past regrets. Release these mistakes to God and trust him to do immeasurably more than all you ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within you and your children. (Paraphrased Ephesians 3:20)

What’s next: Write a letter to your teenagers and lay it on their bed, sealed with a kiss. (If you like this letter, write it out in your own handwriting and sign your name)

If you are looking for more resources on dating in today’s world, I highly recommend the book; Courtship In Crisis by Tomas Umstattd Jr.

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Kara Schrock

Kara Schrock

My Life was radically changed when I had an encounter with God in 1999. Hungry for truth and searching for answers, our lives crossed paths with Bible Teacher Andrew Wommack, founder of Charis Bible College of Colorado Springs, CO. My husband's decision to attend Charis Bible Collage moved our family of 6, West.

Seven years later, we added another baby boy, completing our family with 4 boys and one precious daughter. LaVon and I have been married for almost 23 years, and he is still the love of my life!

My purpose in life is to pass onto others the refreshing that has been poured out on me, shaping me into what I am today and am still becoming. I am forever grateful to my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ for finding me and giving me a hope and a future.
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5 Comments

  1. Cuts to the chase – Excellent advice with a biblical & godly perspective, perfect for our teens Kara! Priceless! 🙌🏻

  2. This letter address adults too, including marries ones like myself!

  3. This is so good Kara!

  4. My kids are still young, but I appreciate you sharing on this topic and providing ways to guide our children through that complex time in a godly way!

  5. What a great Bible study Kara! This is such an important topic! It’s so important to talk to our teens about dating!

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