“The Lord doesn’t see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” 1 Samuel 16:7b (NLT)
Precious Mom,
I’m so excited for you to enter into this week’s study and I would like to start off this letter by asking you a question: “As a wise woman of God, what do you believe deep within your heart concerning your family?”
As an empty nester, it is a privilege to share words of wisdom that I took to heart and implemented in my parenting days. A most valuable piece of advice offered by a cherished mentor changed my view of belief in our children. She said, “The child you see is not who they will be.”
Doesn’t that encourage you and put a smile on your face, possibly offering you a newfound hope? It did for me. The application of this truth in your parenting can change the trajectory of your child’s life. As mothers, we must be aware of how we view and speak to our children. What is the belief within your heart and attitude of mind toward the young and impressionable individual you have before you? Do you believe he or she will become an independent and competent adult who contributes to society, or is there doubt in your mind? Belief requires a positive mindset, a hope for the future, and faith. It’s been said that “whatever thought or word we repeat to ourselves, whether it is true or false, we will invariably come to believe it.” What are you repeating, either verbally or nonverbally, to those in your care?
Dear sister, align your words, thoughts, and actions with the promises from God’s Word, and practice those truths in regards to each member of your household. As you direct these malleable young ones, allow for differences in each child’s temperament—one child may simply need to mature, while another may require a more substantial hand in discipline if strong-willed. Regardless, every one of God’s children is “fearfully and wonderfully made” (Psalm 139:14). In parenting, we should parent to the child’s bend, so each instruction is unique, as well. Remember to guard your heart and mind, and, above all, LOVE your child deeply!
Be the model of Christ; love those in your care. Allow each one in your household to see His love reflected in you. At Help Club for Moms, we are praying for you. We hope that you will practice the concept of “believing” in your family as you journey through the studies this week.
Remember, sweet woman of God, love the Lord and love your family above all else. Nothing should come before your family; this is non-negotiable. (Be sure to go to myhelpclubformoms.com to print our time management resource: “Life’s Blueprint,” and more free printables for this book.)
Love in Him,
Melissa Lain and the Help Club for Moms Team
“Faith sees the invisible, believes the unbelievable, and receives the impossible.” Corrie ten Boom
As a young mom and wife, I realized the blessing of older women in my life. I am praying for you - dear wife, mom, precious child of God - that Help Club is a community where you experience the love of our Savior so that you will make an eternal impact on those within and without your four walls. Allow us to take you by the hand to instruct, guide, and encourage you in this season of life called motherhood.
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Help Club for Moms, please pray for myself an my husband. We’re in the last few months of caring for our 17 year old foster daughter who has us worn out from all the ups and downs of the past 5 years which brought a lot of personal stress. We have a 2 1/2 year old biological daughter as well that requires so much of our time and attention. We want to finish the race well with our foster daughter but there are still a lot of stressful days when sometimes I know I think about throwing in the towel so to speak. I know we have to take it day by day and celebrate small successes. Please pray for us.
Hello Donna, I am praying for you right now. Your heart for your foster daughter comes through in your writing. May the Lord bless you as share your heart with your kids.
Hi, I am a new mom to my wonderful 2 years old son. My relationship with the his dad is currently complicated, we’ve been together for 3 years now. I never pictured myself raising a boy child alone, something I will never wish to any woman although I was raised by a single parent and the most loving step dad ever. I never thought one day I will raise a child without a father because I know the pain of not being raised by my own dad, is why I wouldn’t wish my child to experience the same way of growing up without a father. Right now I am afraid if I will be a good mom, considering my situation and the environment I am raising him at. Lately I have been trying to build a relationship with God for I know I can trust in him with my hardships of life. I have joined the help club for mom so that I can find help, courage, strength and God’s wisdom to endure the journey of knowing God better while I am focusing on raising my son and loving myself. #helpclubformom
Dear Sanele,
Your heart for your son is so beautiful. The Lord hears your prayers and will help you. He is right there with you.
Do you know about our online group? It is a lovely place where we pray for one another and encourage each other.
I would love to see you there.
Here is the link to join: https://www.facebook.com/groups/636391573213553
With love,
Deb