Bloom Where You’re Planted

“They seldom reflect on the days of their life, because God keeps them occupied with gladness of heart.” Ecclesiastes 5:20

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens…” Ecclesiastes 3:1

Bloom Where You’re Planted

“In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” Jesus Christ (John 16:33)

When I read these words of our Lord Jesus, part of me feels comforted, and part of me feels concerned. The truth is, we do experience trouble and heartache on this earth. So how can we live a life of faith when we experience the trouble Jesus speaks about without becoming bitter and discontent when the hard times come?

I have prayed a lot about this over the years, and I feel the Lord wants to teach us to live in our season, or simply, bloom where we’re planted. Here’s a little object lesson the Lord used to teach our family how to bloom where we’re planted. My husband, Randy, grew up in the country and deeply desired a house for us on a little piece of land. In Colorado, the land is very expensive, so we had to wait many years.

Eventually, our miracle did come. We listed our home, it sold in two weeks, and we quickly had a contract on another house with land. Meanwhile, we had to move into a rental for a short time while we were in between homes. The only way this plan would work financially was for us to sell some investments we had saved for 11 years in hopes of one day buying a home.

All of this happened in September 2008, days before the big stock-market crash. To make matters worse, my husband and I were so busy scrambling to find a rental that we forgot to sell the stock, and you guessed it, we lost the majority of our money in the crash! We were devastated and moved into the rental having to pay several thousand dollars to back out of the contract for the home with land we could no longer afford.

But you know what? The Lord works in mysterious ways, and we ended up experiencing a season of great joy in that rental. Most of our boxes were still packed, but we hosted parties, read lots of books together, had a great Christmas, and enjoyed a simpler life. Randy and I still reflect on that time and wonder how on earth we got through it without feeling completely disappointed.

I think God filled up our hearts with the joy that didn’t come from our circumstances. When the difficulties began, we started praying Ecclesiastes 5:20 together in our prayer time: “They seldom reflect on the days of their life, because God keeps them occupied with gladness of heart.” This is what God did; He kept us occupied with gladness of heart.

Difficult circumstances are going to arise in your life, and I would encourage you to ask God to help you see what He wants to bring into your life at that moment. In the words of Paul, the secret of being content in any and all circumstances is this: “I can do all things through Him who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13).

During challenging times, ask God to strengthen you and to help you bloom where you’re planted. Make the most out of your life no matter where you find yourself. Open your hands to the Lord and release everything to Him. God can be trusted. Take His yoke upon you and learn from Him so you can be ready for your calling that is to come.

Blessings and Love,

Deb and the Help Club for Moms Team

Go Deeper:

As you think about today’s study, pray and ask God to reveal any areas of your life that you can’t seem to release to Him. Write them in your journal. Ask God to help you be content in His love and live your life to the fullest in every season with the help of the Holy Spirit.

What’s Next?

How can you bloom where you’re planted in your particular circumstances? Write down three things you can do this week to make the most out of your situation. Be a good example for your children and involve them in the process!

A Note from Deb: Many months after we moved into our rental, a wonderful home went to auction, and we were able to purchase it! This house was better than the one we were going to build, and it was much cheaper. We get to use our house all the time for events as well as hosting year-long interns from a local ministry. God’s plan worked out so much better than ours!


Deb Weakly

4 Comments on “Bloom Where You’re Planted”

  1. WOW! This word blessed me so greatly. The verse Ecclesiastes 5:20 really blew my mind; I feel like I had been morning my life before having a baby (2 yr old) which was causing much frustration and sadness. I am speaking Ecclesiastes 5:20 over myself! I will seldom reflect on the days of my life, because God keeps me occupied with gladness of heart! I thank you Jesus for Help Club for Mums as listen daily after dropping my daughter at day care and the words of these wonderful Ladies of the Lord have given me great respite through your Spirit. I love them (even though I am far away, London, UK) and I expand my heart toward them. God is great. Thank you so much.

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